My younger son has a speech delay, my older son a speech disorder that requires frequent and intensive speech therapy to learn to speak. He didn’t say his first word until he was three. Devastated by the lack of conversations I got to have with my children, one day I turned to Scripture. Surely there was a passage or verse about speech that would encourage me, right?
Yes there was. And I’m going to share my favorite four with you now. 🙂
This is a beautiful passage about a man who was deaf and mute and was brought to Jesus. But the verses I especially love are in verses 34-35.
Jesus looked up to heaven and with a deep sigh said to him, “Ephatha!” (which means “be opened!”). At this, the man’s ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly.”
I love this for many reasons, but especially for my older son who not only has a speech disorder but also a severe hearing loss in one ear. The thought of God being able to open my child’s ear and loosen his tongue so my son could clearly speak was something I long for in my child and is a Scripture of healing I pray over my son.
But I also just love the fact that it indicates Jesus’ care for people no matter how large or small the concern may seem. How much power He has over everything, from the wind and the waves, to the ears and the tongue. He has power over and concern for everything that matters to us.
“Moses said to the Lord, “O Lord, I have never been eloquent, neither in the past nor since you have spoken to your servant. I am slow of speech and tongue.
The Lord said to him, “Who gave man his mouth? Who makes the him deaf or mute? Who gives him sight or makes him blind? Is it not, I the LORD? Now go; I will help you speak and will teach you what to say.”
Moses insists he still cannot do it, and so God tells Moses that his brother Aaron will be able to speak for him.
I love this passage because it shows me three things about God.
- He can use anybody, no matter their weakness or struggle. Moses did mighty things for God’s chosen people even though he had issues with his speech. God can use our children too!
- God is powerful over everything, even our child’s speech. He created our child the way He did, which could make us question His ways and His goodness. Our children are wonderfully made and have a unique purpose that we may not see now, but we will one day.
- God will equip everyone with what they need to succeed. Moses used his speech as an excuse, but God said He would be able to help him. And also that Aaron could help him as well. If your child has a significant delay or is nonverbal, perhaps they have a speech device or use sign language. But they also have been gifted with you as a parent to figure out their wants and needs and translate to others.
“How sweet are your words to my taste,
sweeter than honey to my mouth!” Psalm 119:103
Although this is a verse about how much the psalmist loved God’s word, I clung to this as a verse about how I felt about each of my children’s new words. It was a word that was sweet and to be savored and celebrated.
“A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”
When my children said their first word and then slowly added to their vocabularies I viewed each of those words as something special to treasure, like an apple of gold in setting of silver.
I then combined the words I liked from both of these verses – ‘sweet’ from Psalm 119:103 and ‘apples of gold’ from Proverbs 25:11 to form my new prayer for my children of “Sweet apples of gold.” I prayed for new sweet apples of gold in my prayer time with God and on the way to speech therapy, and praised God for new sweet apples of gold after my children said a new word or phrase. I honestly love this phrase to refer to my childrens’ speech.
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