I went for a walk the other day, just soaking in God’s creation unfurling after a long winter, when I happened upon a flower growing through a crack in the road.

At first, I was sad for it.  There was a beautiful garden about five feet away from this flower, where its friends were growing.  And here was this flower, all by itself, growing in such a hard and unlikely place to grow.

But then, my perspective changed and I was suddenly proud of this lone flower.  It did exactly what it was created to do: spread its roots and grow and bloom and share its color and beauty with the world, despite its unusual circumstances.  It could have withered up and died, but it was blooming.

Encouraging Thoughts About Our Children

And as I marvelled at God’s creation a new thought struck me:  My children are not in the garden I expected them to grow in.  I expected them to thrive at play dates and in school, and instead they struggle in those environments.  I expected them to grow among their peers, and instead I watched them fall further and further behind, finally mastering every milestone months or years behind their peers.

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My children are like that lone flower, growing right where they are planted.

And I am learning to embrace the unique way they are blooming: their own rate of development, their personalities, their abilities, their passions, and yes, even their quirks.

And when I focus on them that way, I see that they are indeed blooming, showing off their unique colors to this world desperate for a little color and joy in it.

And that makes me one proud and blessed mama.  🙂

 

Encouraging Thoughts for Mothers of Children with Special Needs.

And then, my thoughts took another turn. This time, it wasn’t about flowers and it wasn’t about my children, it was about me.

How I was also like that flower, growing through hard circumstances. I could choose to wither under the worries and the busyness and the anxiety and the grief that comes with special needs parenting. Or I could choose to grow from it.

Encouragement for special needs parents | special needs parentingI thought about how I didn’t need my roots to go down deep for nutrients, I just needed tiny roots willing to seek out nourishment from God.  Jesus told us we just needed faith the size of a mustard seed (the tiniest seed of them all) to be able to move mountains (Matthew 17:20).  Whether you’re hearing from God or not, keep praying, keep reading the word, and keep trusting and you will find yourself growing deeper in your faith than you have ever been before.

I thought about how I could grow into a stronger version of me, with just as beautiful blooms as the flowers in that garden, because I’ve been given every gift I need from God to be the woman and the wife and the mother He created me to be.

And so, my friend, have you. So, let those tiny roots seek out every ounce of nourishment it can from God through prayer and Bible reading. Focus on how strong you are, how much you’ve grown since going through your difficult circumstances, and keep on growing.

And bloom, girl! Let those colors and giftings God gave you shine! Share them with your family and your friends and strangers and whoever God puts across your path. This hurting world needs your beautiful colors too!!

“Observe how the lilies of the field grow; they do not toil nor do they spin, yet I say to you that not even Solomon in all his glory clothed himself like one of these.”  Matthew 6:28-29


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Here’s to watching our children bloom in their own unique way, and blooming ourselves, as special needs mamas!

Jenn

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